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In an essay in last Sunday's Washington Post, Linda Hirschman waxes eloquent about the power of the female vote, and muses on why women so consistently fail to be a force in general elections. "My own theory," Hirschman writes, "is that women don't decide elections because they're not rational political actors -- they don't make firm policy commitments and back the candidates who will move society in the direction they want it to go. Instead, they vote on impulse, and on elusive factors such as personality."
Hirschman tested her theory on a small group of DC-area stay-home moms, women who listen to NPR, but also read InStyle and People. According to Hirschman, these women--who come to stand in for ALL white, affluent stay-home moms--get most of their political information from their husbands, not from mainstream media. Hirschman claims that the women in her very tiny focus group (which represents ALL women who vote in America) talked about character rather than policy: "Explaining why she did not vote for George W. Bush in 2000 even though she expressed concern over taxes, Hillary said: 'I just could not get past the fact that I didn't like the man.'" Hirschman doesn't press Hillary on the connection between taxes and character; she doesn't seem to see any link between this woman's concerns about the President's policies and her dislike of him. She sees only an irrational voter.
Hirschman was distressed by what she heard from these women, especially as they are reflective of ALL voting women: "I had such mixed feelings listening to these women describe their political selves. They're clearly idealistic, want to be good citizens, make an effort to get the information they need. It was hard not to like them. Their delight in seeing a woman so close to real power was palpable. Yet I couldn't escape the fact that they took in little of politics, especially compared with their husbands, that their decision-making seemed impulsive and that their response to Clinton's candidacy was driven to an amazing extent by personality." But Hirschman never talked to these women's husbands, never asked them about the distinction between personality and issues. She never examined how they were voting because clearly, these six women are the entire picture.
In today's New York Times, Judith Warner takes issue both with Hirschman's approach and her conclusions. Warner concedes that to an extent, Hirschman has a point: "Survey after survey shows the consumers of news today to be disproportionately male. In my own anecdotal forays through the living rooms of America's suburbs, I'’ve often been struck by the degree to which women--particularly mothers of young children--don'’t keep up with world events." But she goes on to point out irrational voting-priviliging of "character" over "issues"--is not limited to women. "Just look at the presidential election results of 2004: a solid majority of voters said they disapproved of George BushÂ's handling of the war and the economy. Most voters, furthermore, said they believed the country was headed in the wrong direction. But 70 percent of voters also rated the president as 'likeable.' They overwhelmingly said they'’d rather have a beer with him than with John Kerry and would be much more likely to trust him to walk their dog. No matter where he was on the issues, Kerry's 'personality gap' just couldn't be breached."
It wasn't irrational women who reelected George Bush; it was irrational American voters at large, who chose character or "likeability" over policy. "Singling out women voters for alleged soft thinking," Warner writes, "is misguided, and a little bit bizarre." She goes on to say that "Hirshman's disdain for the way many women live their lives today shouldn't lead her to underestimate their cognitive skills--or overestimate those of their spouses. Our country may well be sliding towards idiocracy (to borrow from the title of Mike Judge'’s recent dystopic), but it's not just a girl thing."
I think Warner is right, and I think that the best evidence that we are a nation of idiots is the mainstream media itself, particularly it's portrayal of women. It's no wonder women are not relying on the news for useful information; stories about women focus either on our failure to live up to some imaginary ideal (Good Mommies Don't Drink) or on our success at being powerful AND female Vote for Me--I'm a Mom). We turn away from the media because we are tired of those images.
But we also turn away because of pundits like Hirschman, who seems to think that if she berates women enough we will change our ways and become . . . what? More engaged? I suspect not; instead, I think attacks like this cause women to turn even more firmly away from mainstream media, and perhaps from politics in general. I agree with Hirschman, and with Warner, that mothers of small children are far too willing to disengage from the larger world, but I don't think that pointing the finger at these women and blaming THEM for the way we ALL vote is the answer. I don't think insisting that they take direction from a media culture that doesn't respect or value what they do all day is the way to bring them back into the fold.
I don't think calling women irrational is the way to win our votes.
Hirschman tested her theory on a small group of DC-area stay-home moms, women who listen to NPR, but also read InStyle and People. According to Hirschman, these women--who come to stand in for ALL white, affluent stay-home moms--get most of their political information from their husbands, not from mainstream media. Hirschman claims that the women in her very tiny focus group (which represents ALL women who vote in America) talked about character rather than policy: "Explaining why she did not vote for George W. Bush in 2000 even though she expressed concern over taxes, Hillary said: 'I just could not get past the fact that I didn't like the man.'" Hirschman doesn't press Hillary on the connection between taxes and character; she doesn't seem to see any link between this woman's concerns about the President's policies and her dislike of him. She sees only an irrational voter.
Hirschman was distressed by what she heard from these women, especially as they are reflective of ALL voting women: "I had such mixed feelings listening to these women describe their political selves. They're clearly idealistic, want to be good citizens, make an effort to get the information they need. It was hard not to like them. Their delight in seeing a woman so close to real power was palpable. Yet I couldn't escape the fact that they took in little of politics, especially compared with their husbands, that their decision-making seemed impulsive and that their response to Clinton's candidacy was driven to an amazing extent by personality." But Hirschman never talked to these women's husbands, never asked them about the distinction between personality and issues. She never examined how they were voting because clearly, these six women are the entire picture.
In today's New York Times, Judith Warner takes issue both with Hirschman's approach and her conclusions. Warner concedes that to an extent, Hirschman has a point: "Survey after survey shows the consumers of news today to be disproportionately male. In my own anecdotal forays through the living rooms of America's suburbs, I'’ve often been struck by the degree to which women--particularly mothers of young children--don'’t keep up with world events." But she goes on to point out irrational voting-priviliging of "character" over "issues"--is not limited to women. "Just look at the presidential election results of 2004: a solid majority of voters said they disapproved of George BushÂ's handling of the war and the economy. Most voters, furthermore, said they believed the country was headed in the wrong direction. But 70 percent of voters also rated the president as 'likeable.' They overwhelmingly said they'’d rather have a beer with him than with John Kerry and would be much more likely to trust him to walk their dog. No matter where he was on the issues, Kerry's 'personality gap' just couldn't be breached."
It wasn't irrational women who reelected George Bush; it was irrational American voters at large, who chose character or "likeability" over policy. "Singling out women voters for alleged soft thinking," Warner writes, "is misguided, and a little bit bizarre." She goes on to say that "Hirshman's disdain for the way many women live their lives today shouldn't lead her to underestimate their cognitive skills--or overestimate those of their spouses. Our country may well be sliding towards idiocracy (to borrow from the title of Mike Judge'’s recent dystopic), but it's not just a girl thing."
I think Warner is right, and I think that the best evidence that we are a nation of idiots is the mainstream media itself, particularly it's portrayal of women. It's no wonder women are not relying on the news for useful information; stories about women focus either on our failure to live up to some imaginary ideal (Good Mommies Don't Drink) or on our success at being powerful AND female Vote for Me--I'm a Mom). We turn away from the media because we are tired of those images.
But we also turn away because of pundits like Hirschman, who seems to think that if she berates women enough we will change our ways and become . . . what? More engaged? I suspect not; instead, I think attacks like this cause women to turn even more firmly away from mainstream media, and perhaps from politics in general. I agree with Hirschman, and with Warner, that mothers of small children are far too willing to disengage from the larger world, but I don't think that pointing the finger at these women and blaming THEM for the way we ALL vote is the answer. I don't think insisting that they take direction from a media culture that doesn't respect or value what they do all day is the way to bring them back into the fold.
I don't think calling women irrational is the way to win our votes.

17 Comments:
I think there are many reasons mothers of young children disengage. One is the quality of media in this country. But I think a lot of it has to do with lack of time. If you have enough money, a housecleaner, a steady babysitter or nanny and enough time away from young kids, it has to be easier to stay engaged. But that's not true of most of us. A sleep-deprived mother doesn't even have enough firing brain cells to read media that is truthful. So it really doesn't help to say women too easily become disengaged. We become disengaged becasue society isn't set-up to support parents.
Wait - mothers of young children don't keep up with current events? Gee, I wonder why not.
I didn't vote for Bush because I like him. In fact I find him "unlikeable", but yes, I voted for him. I made a decision AND I am female, wow.
(Hope you still like me even though I'm not a democrat Susan)
Anonymous, I think you are right on: we live in a culture that is NOT set up to support parents, and because of that many of us--women AND men--wind up disengaged, particularly when our children are very small. Blaming women isn't the solution; it's part of the problem.
I wish I knew what was going on in Linda Hirschman's head, I really do.
Why the gross generalizations??? I stay at home AND keep up with politics and the news. We DO exist.
And to say that women are irrational??? Excuse me??
This is yet another box that we're each being forced into....
BTW, I totally agree with Anonymous.
I don't consider myself to be irrational (like I'd admit to that, right?) but I will say I'm not always as informed as I'd like. And I do think it's true that making fun of women is not going to motivate them to get more informed.
Agreeing with anonymous, I don't have time to be engaged all the time, but I do read up on the issues before I vote and try to make an informed decision. The rest of the year, the current events sometimes slip by me...
I didn't vote for Bush either time. He was a failed businessman who only wanted to become the commissoner of baseball. Instead, he became the governer of my state...a job he was completely unqualified for. And then, he became President. I didn't vote for him in either election because he proved himself to be an inarticulate boob whose insecurities over past failures (familial and professional) make him disinclined to admit past or present mistakes while creating a bully pulpit for himself and his cronies. As for staying home with kids... I read, I watched the news and I listened to debates. Oh...and I LIVED under the man's half-witted "leadership" before the nation had a real chance to get a whiff of him. I've been a SAHM who worked part-time as a writer.I don't think of myself as irrational, but I do think of myself as a person whose dislike for the present administration increases hourly. I think Hirschman is one of those women who would rather belittle a role (parenting)she knows little about than try to understand what it is like to give up a huge part of yourself to stay home and do the hardest job out there...for no pay.
You're just being irrational! :)
Mark, that's funny.
SUSAN for President!!
:)
I believe the reason why women cannot truly effect the vote as a gender is because we see far too many images of "powerful" or outspoken women who just belittle or criticize another women's choices/beliefs/etc. Work or SAHM, be watchful or avoid, parent or don't have children, do more or do less. We cannot get out of our own way. Combative as opposed to collaborative.
Thanks for writing this Susan.
I agree with Anon - when do stay at home parents (moms or dads!) have the time to sit down and have a quiet moment with the paper? I try my best to stay current with the news - I listen to the radio in the car and skim the news online during the baby's naps and after he goes to sleep. But it's not as if I have real TIME to devote to it. I want to and I try to stay informed so that I can have intelligent opinions, but I don't always succeed.
That said, I don't find it all that suprising that women tend to vote the same as their husbands. I would find it odd if women consistently voted differently than them, NOT because I think women follow their husbands but because I think people that get married tend to be similar - racially, socio-economically, religiously, and yes politically too. It just doesn't seem all that shocking to me.
That said, I'm a Democrat and my husband considers himself an independent, but he usually votes Republican. So obviously that isn't always true.
So Hirshman is the new Ann Coulter?
"I think [women] should be armed but should not vote...women have no capacity to understand how money is earned. They have a lot of ideas on how to spend it...it's always more money on education, more money on child care, more money on day care."
Ann Coulter;Comedy Central; Politically Incorrect; February 26, 2001.
Very well written post, Susan. Did Wade check it for you first? You know, since he's the one with the life outside the home.
CB, Coulter has a point--if I had a gun, I don't know that I would care so much about the voting. After all, I might actually have a better chance of getting my way.
Also, she forgot to say MORE MONEY ON SHOES. Sheesh.
Thanks for writing this, Susan. I totally agree. As a SAHM, it's true that I don't have much time for mainstream media. I do my best to keep up with politics, mostly by engaging my more-informed, politically active friends in the topic and learning from them. I need my news in easy-to-digest chunks these days. I look forward to the day when I can pay more attention to world events, but for now my world revolves around meal time, nap time, and bed time.
Oh my gosh! Linda Hirschman thinks I'm a loser because I don't think like a man! I'm so upset!
NOT
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